The Pissed Off Thread

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Cars!!!!

I think our car is jealous of the attention the new house is getting.
A couple of weeks ago a part went in the drivers door so I couldn't open the door from the outside. Took it in - its a dealer only part - the dealer fluffs up the order so my guy cobbles together a repair - £80!!. Two days ago this breaks - Ok livewith it.
So today, we get back from town to find the fuel pump has gone and is spraying diesel everywhere. More money to be spent.

2nd rant - why do women (esp my DW) keep asking what you would like or what to get but never like the answer.
 
i am pissed off because every damn night for the last 2 weeks we smell skunk!! there aren't any squashed on the roads so they must be humping or getting scared every freaking night!! when i am lucky enough to fall asleep at night that stink wakes me up!!
 
it's been 45 days smoke-free and my damn family haven't given me any encouragement or congrats!! i think it is a big achievement!!
 
lilbopeep said:
it's been 45 days smoke-free and my damn family haven't given me any encouragement or congrats!! i think it is a big achievement!!
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Do they still smoke? I've seen that before, if they are still smoking it's harder for them to congratulate you.
45 days is quite an accomplishment. You are over the hardest part, but that doesn't mean it's easy now. Been there done that. My wife and I quit at the same time. After 60 days she caved and started up again. Somehow I maintained and have not smoked much since (25 years ago). DW was able to quit but she was a few years behind me.
I know it's not easy, each day and situation can be a new challenge. Stay focused and remember you are doing it for you. You'll feel so much better and food will taste better....plus you won't have to go out in the cold to smoke this winter. :D :tiphat: :thumb:
 
Doc said:
Do they still smoke? I've seen that before, if they are still smoking it's harder for them to congratulate you.
45 days is quite an accomplishment. You are over the hardest part, but that doesn't mean it's easy now. Been there done that. My wife and I quit at the same time. After 60 days she caved and started up again. Somehow I maintained and have not smoked much since (25 years ago). DW was able to quit but she was a few years behind me.
I know it's not easy, each day and situation can be a new challenge. Stay focused and remember you are doing it for you. You'll feel so much better and food will taste better....plus you won't have to go out in the cold to smoke this winter. :D :tiphat: :thumb:
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no one in my family smokes. my girls are 13 and 20 and my hub. he screamed and cursed at me to quit. he always wants something and than when he gets it he wants it the other way. he wants things to use against me. i know it sick and twisted but thats my life.

the amazing and strangest thing is it hasn't been tough at all. no problem or food substitutions.
 
WTG! Peeps-Please Keep it up- It does get easier!
I can play (and win) Tennis with my 15 Yr old daughter. I snow ski (and don't have to stop every 100 yards) And I don't have to listen to my daughter nagging about Quitting anymore.
I quit on the Millinium when I was 52. (now 62).
I am very proud of you Peeps.

 
dandiamond said:
WTG! Peeps-Please Keep it up- It does get easier!
I can play (and win) Tennis with my 15 Yr old daughter. I snow ski (and don't have to stop every 100 yards) And I don't have to listen to my daughter nagging about Quitting anymore.
I quit on the Millinium when I was 52. (now 62).
I am very proud of you Peeps.
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thank you!! it is appreciated.
 
geez ... does someone really think i can handle anymore. the past 2.5 weeks have been hell and i am sick of it. now i have a nasty ass virus on my computer and my dad has to completely reformat the damn thing. all i did was check my e-mail. i am stuck using hubby's laptop which isn't too bad - but i dont want to drag my external over to it all the time. too many wires and i'm lazy.

top that off with throwing myself into soccer to keep my mind off things - dealing with some rude ass parents that don't know how to read the fine print - i can't take anymore.

oh, and now hubby is moaning and groaning that he never sees me anymore. he is one of the ones that volunteered me for this soccer gig. i'm sorry i am never home but this is my job now and i need it. if i sit at home too long i think and right now i don't want to do that. all of a sudden i am getting those questions like "are we ok?" wtf? i am preoccupied because i have to be - it's called grieving or trying to. seriously contemplating getting back on Paxil - been saying that for awhile - but I think it is now time. i am going insane and this is just the beginning!

oh and mom - i just started receiving cards as of yesterday - 5 to be exact - i know what it is like now.
 
heb1976 said:
geez ... does someone really think i can handle anymore. the past 2.5 weeks have been hell and i am sick of it. now i have a nasty ass virus on my computer and my dad has to completely reformat the damn thing. all i did was check my e-mail. i am stuck using hubby's laptop which isn't too bad - but i dont want to drag my external over to it all the time. too many wires and i'm lazy.

top that off with throwing myself into soccer to keep my mind off things - dealing with some rude ass parents that don't know how to read the fine print - i can't take anymore.

oh, and now hubby is moaning and groaning that he never sees me anymore. he is one of the ones that volunteered me for this soccer gig. i'm sorry i am never home but this is my job now and i need it. if i sit at home too long i think and right now i don't want to do that. all of a sudden i am getting those questions like "are we ok?" wtf? i am preoccupied because i have to be - it's called grieving or trying to. seriously contemplating getting back on Paxil - been saying that for awhile - but I think it is now time. i am going insane and this is just the beginning!

oh and mom - i just started receiving cards as of yesterday - 5 to be exact - i know what it is like now.
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Heather, all you can do is take it day by day.....no more, no less!! You'll get through it in your own way. Every day it will be something different and you'll handle it and move on. Just stay strong........
 
heb1976 said:
all of a sudden i am getting those questions like "are we ok?" wtf? .
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Hang in there heather....


I hate questions like that (although I know people are trying to be nice) because you just cannot respond "obviously ****ing not!"


I am pissed today for a few reasons... one because although I sort of like my job I am starting to feel like I work for some sort of workahaulic cult.... the recent firings paired with several other over the last year..
plus whispers of firings past and the spartan way it is sort of seen by the staff as removal of the weak link makes me sweat every move... which I think is the point of the management. The level of pressure they put on the loyal cronies is terrifying... my boss on the project has been working overtime in serious pain all week... this is not healthy. I try to do my job well but I do not live and die for it.

this stress is accompanied by my brothers short arrival... hopefully next week... he is supposed to be here for a month and I really want things to go well but I know from experience how impossible he is. There is noone in the world I want to see more.. I have not seen him for almost a year and noone i want to spend time with but it is difficult dealing with him when my focus has to be elsewhere and he is such an amazing PITA.
 
well wish me luck bro and his entourage (dog and GF) are about an hour away... five days early I might add. Things are about to go crazy here... I really hope the dogs do ok together that will be the clincher. He is supposed to be here for a month I really want it to be a good one but I am worried.
 
Good luck, Pancho!

Keep us updated, the way Vera did when her parents visited! Start a new thread in Chit Chat, and call it something like "Brother Chronicles" so we know where to look.

Lee
 
I know that feeling Pancho as kids my kid brother and I were inseparable until he got married (I was married for 5 years at the time). He turned into another person then and I haven't heard from him now in 15 years nor do I want too.
 
Pancho........I can definitely sympathize with you, I have 3 of them that are like that!! There is no way in hell I would let either of them come stay with me for a month. When they were all out here last week and staying in a hotel I thought I was going to lose it. I love them all to death but I have my limits!!
I hope everything works out well.............
 
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