Oh no, no, no, that's the treatment they expect all the time. Arwen is particularly bad about that. She will sit down in your lap or beside you on the chair, and then proceed to wiggle her butt to where she wants it and kick you with her feet if she feels she doesn't have enough room. She also does that to Strider, our little boy. If he is laying where she wants to be, she will stand there and stare at him and eventually start fussing if he doesn't get up and move. He nearly always gives in on his own or 1 of us will call him to come sit with them because she does NOT give up. The cats, she simply sits on them until they move.