My husband and I are like that, too, Joe. We don't give each other gifts for holidays.
We always buy several bottles of sparkling grape juice for the little kids to toast with on New Year's Eve or other celebrations. They get to use a champagne flute, too.
All of our boys have two middle names cuz we couldn't agree on just one. My son is carrying this on with his new baby, so I guess it's now a tradition.