Loralei, I can't even imagine what you and her have and are going through, I don't want to. They married right before I did, so, they had 26 years. I thank God for bringing him into my life. He would piss me off so badly at times, but, he was a really great guy. He would do anything he could to help, as long as you were helping yourself. He didn't pity anyone that wouldn't. He didn't give compliments freely at all. He was quick to tell you that you screwed up, but, just as quick to show you how to fix it with a gentle hand, so, when you received a compliment from him, you never forgot it. In all the time I knew him, I received one and I will always have that. Don't get me wrong, he was in no way a hard person, he was funny and loved people, he just didn't put up with non sense from anyone. He was smart and knew a lot about about just anything. Navy man in the Cuban missile crisis years. Loved his Harley!! Him and my sister went on every ride their chapter had. He dearly missed it when he was unable to ride anymore. He was the Capt of his group. thank you for your prayers, I will pass them on to her!