I think it was Sass that told me she'd talked to him awhile back....
I've tried to reach him through FACEBOOK too but haven't heard anything.
I do wish I could make him smile. He's a great guy.
buckytom said:I'm sorry, i didn't mean to be a jerk about it. i didn't think it was right to just leave, but i also didn't think of responses.
please suffice it to say that things in my life have gotten really shitty on several levels, and it's just not a good idea that i chat about it. i've always spoken from my heart (and joked by the seat of my pants), and since i wear my heart on my sleeve, and you seem to have had enough cliche's by now , i don't think that i can fake it. also, i get mean when i'm down, so i don't need to spread the shit around.
i'll just have to see what the future holds for me.
but, thanks, and be good to each other.
Tom was having personal problems.
That's all I say about it.
In his last PM to me, I'd apologized to both he and Keltin for thinking they were ganging up on the banned Derek.
Last thing Tom said to me was something like this:
"Don't worry about it, the day I can call myself perfect, I'll let you know".
Without providing too much info, let's just say he trusted some with what was truly going on in his life, and it wasn't pretty.
I do hope he sorts it all out and returns soon.