It isn't a spoon. It's a skillet or saute pan!
I like the pan.
I agree, I think the hand with the fingers as they were pointed looked effeminate. With the pan, you are underlining this site as being a cooking website. Further as a logo, it would work for both men and women and could be used to create t-shirts, sweatshirts, aprons, coffee mugs and hot pads--even mouse pads. Later, if we ever have a cookbook, it would make an awesome cover. I think it is the most awesome choice on many levels!!!! Way cool!!
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I just wanted to add, Jeeks, I didn't see the hand as a pinch. Sorry. But I do want to thank you for your efforts. You are multi-talented!!!