View Full Version : Prayers needed for my daughter, Jennifer.
lifesaver91958
12-10-2010, 05:51 PM
Jennifer is only 29 and has been an alcoholic for the past 6 years. Jennifer has suddenly become very ill over the past three months and we just found out today that her liver is no longer working and her body is trying to shut down. Jennifer is gonna need all the prayers that she can get asking god to help perform a mircale on her.
I could also use a few prayers because I'm not handling the whole thing very well.
I'm so sorry to hear this LS. 29 is such a young age. I'll be keeping both of you in my prayers.
Is there anything that the medical community can do for her?
mhend
12-10-2010, 06:11 PM
I'm so sorry LS. I'll send out a prayer for you and your daughter.
buzzard767
12-10-2010, 07:04 PM
I'm so sorry LS. I'll send out a prayer for you and your daughter.
As will I. God bless.
Buzz
MexicoKaren
12-10-2010, 07:24 PM
Oh LS, I am so sorry. I can only imagine what you must be going through. Of course, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter.
I'm so sorry LS. That is absolutely horrible. Good thoughts and prayers on the way for both you and your daughter. I wish there was something more I could do.
SilverSage
12-10-2010, 08:13 PM
Oh, Darlene! That's tragic! Of course all of our thought are with you. Please take what little comfort you can in the knowledge that we are all here holding your virtual hand.
Positive and healing thoughts being sent to you and your daughter, Lifesaver.
Her youth will work in her favor. I hope she has a strong will to fight!
We are here for you.
Lee
lifesaver91958
12-10-2010, 10:39 PM
Thank you all very much!
jim_slagle
12-10-2010, 10:43 PM
We're so sorry to hear about Jennifer.
Jim and Beth
BamsBBQ
12-11-2010, 01:33 AM
deepest wishes to your family
Sass Muffin
12-11-2010, 01:36 AM
Jennifer is only 29 and has been an alcoholic for the past 6 years. Jennifer has suddenly become very ill over the past three months and we just found out today that her liver is no longer working and her body is trying to shut down. Jennifer is gonna need all the prayers that she can get asking god to help perform a mircale on her.
I could also use a few prayers because I'm not handling the whole thing very well.
You got the prayers.
You've got the positive vibes coming your way.
Stay strong hun.
She's 29 and hopefully not a lot of damage has been done that's irreparable.
The liver is a mighty strong organ and can take a lot of abuse.
Keep us posted.
TexasGirl
12-11-2010, 11:22 AM
Oh honey, you definitely have my prayers for both of you! I'm so sorry you are going through this! {{{{{hugs}}}}}
lilylove
12-11-2010, 12:00 PM
Hugs to you and Jen
PieSusan
12-11-2010, 08:36 PM
Darlene, of course you have my prayers. I am sorry that I am just reading this now. Refuah shlema to your daughter. May she find recovery and the happiness that comes with it.
lilbopeep
12-11-2010, 11:36 PM
You, your daughter and hub will be in my thoughts and prayers!! XOXOXOXOXO
Mr. Green Jeans
12-12-2010, 10:10 AM
Darlene, our prayers go out to Jennifer. Strength to you and your family.
Oh Lord! I've been there. I was told that my 17 year old daughter had an incurable brain cancer. I didn't handle that very well either. I couldn't sleep or eat. I was very lucky in that she is the first surviver of that cancer. I really hope that your daughter will be as lucky. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If you want to talk about it my email is lenikk@aol.com. I found that it helped me a lot.
Meme4251
12-12-2010, 02:11 PM
LS, my thoughts and prayers coming your way from here in Texas. Both of you take care and please keep us updated.
Sincerely.
Sheri/Meme:flowers:
lifesaver91958
12-12-2010, 06:01 PM
Thanks everyone! Jennifer is still hanging in there and has quit drinking the liquor. She's pretty sore all over and can hardly walk but she manages to get around the house with help. She's not holding food or liquids down too well but she got some meds for that.
I haven't been able to sleep or eat much but I'm taking one day at a time and still praying for her full recovery.
Deelady
12-12-2010, 06:17 PM
My thoughts and prayers wll be wth you as well until I hear of her recovery!! May a Christmas miracle be granted to you guys!!
God Bless!
loboloco
12-12-2010, 06:31 PM
LS, just saw this. My thoughts and wishes are with her and you and all your family.
I hope she recovers and manages to stay away from the sauce.
PieSusan
12-12-2010, 07:56 PM
Does Jennifer have delirium tremors? If so, she should really be checked out in the ER. Darlene, there are 12 step programs for her and for you. I hope you all get the love and support you need. Hugs and prayers.
Sass Muffin
12-13-2010, 04:00 AM
Thanks everyone! Jennifer is still hanging in there and has quit drinking the liquor. She's pretty sore all over and can hardly walk but she manages to get around the house with help. She's not holding food or liquids down too well but she got some meds for that.
I haven't been able to sleep or eat much but I'm taking one day at a time and still praying for her full recovery.
She'll be ok. :wink:
I am certain they have put her on a benzo classed med, as well as advising you all about her diet, rest and some counseling.
Just love her to death and keep her safe and warm and let her know how much she is loved.
You're a good Mommy and she's just where she needs to be now.
Biskit
12-13-2010, 07:27 AM
I cannot imagine the hell you're going through right now. Prayers for Jennifer and just as many prayers for you. Stay in touch. My PM box is open for you, should you need an ear.
lifesaver91958
12-13-2010, 09:59 AM
A little good news this morning! Jennifer says that her legs don't hurt as much but she's still having a lot of pain in her hands and sides. It seems that when she gets into a tub of hot water it releaves some of the pain for a little while for her to get some sleep.
Thanks for the updates, LS - they sound like positive steps, for sure!
Lee
Sass Muffin
12-13-2010, 02:22 PM
A little good news this morning! Jennifer says that her legs don't hurt as much but she's still having a lot of pain in her hands and sides. It seems that when she gets into a tub of hot water it releaves some of the pain for a little while for her to get some sleep.
:heart:
VeraBlue
12-13-2010, 05:45 PM
You and your family are in my thoughts.
PieSusan
12-14-2010, 05:56 PM
She'll be ok. :wink:
I am certain they have put her on a benzo classed med, as well as advising you all about her diet, rest and some counseling.
Just love her to death and keep her safe and warm and let her know how much she is loved.
You're a good Mommy and she's just where she needs to be now.
I couldn't have said it better!
lifesaver91958
01-02-2011, 07:14 PM
More good news! Jennifer is getting her appitite back and is moving about the house more frequently. Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers. :)
buzzard767
01-02-2011, 07:26 PM
Good news. Jennifer is on the mend and that is wonderful.
One day at a time....
Ah, things are looking up, LS!
Our good thoughts are helping!
Lee
Sass Muffin
01-02-2011, 08:59 PM
More good news! Jennifer is getting her appitite back and is moving about the house more frequently. Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers. :)
:clap:
dandiamond
01-02-2011, 10:18 PM
Hey Life Saver, sounds like we have alot of Life savers here with their prayers. Mine too.
My wife and I have 16 years clean and sober as of last Oct. We were both in our 40's, and using Alcohol and Drugs when our daughter was born. Hospital refused the baby to us. We jumped through all the hoops, and we got our daughter back.
We consider her as our miracle child. I am sure both my wife and I would of been long dead. 12 step programs can work, if your daughter wants them to work.
Jennifer is in my prayers. This is so sad. I remember losing too many of my friends from both Alcohol and Drugs.
buckytom
01-03-2011, 02:18 AM
i'm sorry to hear this, ls. of course prayers are on the way.
fortunately, as sass mentioned, the liver can be helped to repair itself in someone so young.
when she gets through this, talk to the docs about a drug called antabuse if she thinks about drinking again, which she will.
UncleRalph
01-04-2011, 04:02 AM
when she gets through this, talk to the docs about a drug called antabuse if she thinks about drinking again, which she will.
I have to agree with this, one of my old sous chefs had a real, REAL bad prob, he did have the foresight through the "clean up process" to know he would re-lapse w/out help, and the pill did it. He had a beer "just to see" and paid for it for about 2 days. 2 days from his own stupidity is far better then a relapse into the trench. The only difference between a trench and the grave is the depth.
I wish you, and your daughter, well in this time of need. It is never easy facing down an addiction, but with a lot of positive people, a positive mindset and the benefit of youth, I am sure your girl can pull through! Best wishes to you and yours!
dandiamond
01-04-2011, 10:29 AM
It has been a long time since I started sobriety. Anabuse is an excellent tool. I stayed on this drug my entire first year.
I worked with a guy, who drank only during the Holidays. Anabuse the rest of the year.
Jennifer would need a Dr. Prescribtion.
lifesaver 91958
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lifesaver91958
01-06-2011, 02:40 AM
Thanks! I'll check it out.
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