homecook
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The holidays are fast approaching and I know some of us are feeling a little down. I know I am. This will be the first Christmas without my mother and it's going to be a hard one. I went through this last year after losing my grandmother and I'm trying to learn from it.
My mom was a great lady and loved to make the holidays special for everyone. It seemed she always knew what to buy as gifts that we would all love. She showed me what being a family and spending time with each other meant. She taught me all the traditions that have been in my family since before I was born and we still carry on to this day. The family getting together on Christmas Eve, enjoying each others company, breaking bread (oplatki), sharing a meal together. Reminding me that we're all we're going to have when it comes to the end. She and my grandmother were the head of the family and took it seriously. I know now I will continue with the traditions that they've started and possibly start some new ones for the grandchildren to enjoy just as much.
I realize how lucky I've been to have had my grandmother and mother for as long as I did. I'm fortunate in that I have no regrets and appreciated every moment I had with them. Towards the end with my mom she may not have known who I was in relation to her but I cherished the time I got to spend with her, touch her, hold her hand, kiss her, talk to her, feed her. Those moments I wouldn't trade for anything as I now keep them in my heart now that she's gone. She was my mom!! She is missed by us all!
I know they both would want to see us all together again this year and I hope we can be, for them and for me so that I can make them proud of what they've instilled in me and that is FAMILY is EVERYTHING!!
Please share your stories about a loved one you may be missing during this holiday season.......sometimes it helps to talk about them.
My mom was a great lady and loved to make the holidays special for everyone. It seemed she always knew what to buy as gifts that we would all love. She showed me what being a family and spending time with each other meant. She taught me all the traditions that have been in my family since before I was born and we still carry on to this day. The family getting together on Christmas Eve, enjoying each others company, breaking bread (oplatki), sharing a meal together. Reminding me that we're all we're going to have when it comes to the end. She and my grandmother were the head of the family and took it seriously. I know now I will continue with the traditions that they've started and possibly start some new ones for the grandchildren to enjoy just as much.
I realize how lucky I've been to have had my grandmother and mother for as long as I did. I'm fortunate in that I have no regrets and appreciated every moment I had with them. Towards the end with my mom she may not have known who I was in relation to her but I cherished the time I got to spend with her, touch her, hold her hand, kiss her, talk to her, feed her. Those moments I wouldn't trade for anything as I now keep them in my heart now that she's gone. She was my mom!! She is missed by us all!
I know they both would want to see us all together again this year and I hope we can be, for them and for me so that I can make them proud of what they've instilled in me and that is FAMILY is EVERYTHING!!
Please share your stories about a loved one you may be missing during this holiday season.......sometimes it helps to talk about them.