Deelady
New member
Ok as you guys know Percy and I got married very beginnning of Nov in a court house ceremony due to our present circumstances (my getting pregnant before our orig planned wedding date and his leaving for Iraq again..). My family and friends knew much ahead of time that we weren't planning a traditional ceremony and there were no hard feeling on them not being there (esp. since they are all in California)......my issue/ question is I can't help but feel hurt and a bit offended that not a single solitary family member or friend bothered to send a congratulations card for our marriage let alone a gift of any sorts!
Now please dont get me wrong, I in no way expected to be showered in gifts as a couple might be if they had a huge wedding of which they registered for....but not even a single card??
For my best friend's wedding I spent over 300 in her gifts (cash as well as an expensive gift they registered for) and I in turn got a face book congrats and a text message and about two weeks later an oh I havent asked about your wedding day yet did I??
Part of me feels petty for feeling resentful and hurt....yet part of me feels justified!
What do you guys think? How would you feel in my place?
TIA
Now please dont get me wrong, I in no way expected to be showered in gifts as a couple might be if they had a huge wedding of which they registered for....but not even a single card??
For my best friend's wedding I spent over 300 in her gifts (cash as well as an expensive gift they registered for) and I in turn got a face book congrats and a text message and about two weeks later an oh I havent asked about your wedding day yet did I??
Part of me feels petty for feeling resentful and hurt....yet part of me feels justified!
What do you guys think? How would you feel in my place?
TIA